This + That + The Other Thing= A Great Night, well deserved

By Jenni | March 8, 2010

Take a little of THIS.

Throw in a bit of THAT.

And don’t forget the OTHER THING.

With just a smidge of THIS, because it makes everything taste better.

Mix everything up well, and you have the makings for a well-deserved GIRLS NIGHT.    And by girls, I mean my oldest daughter, three of her friends, and ME.  

So we’re going HERE.  Exactly one month from today.

Yes, we’re playing hooky from school and work and making a trip to see a concert we have both been dying to see.

Casting Crowns, undoubtedly our favorite Christian group EVER.

Best part?   ROW SIX, baby!   ROW SIX!

I am not sure who is more excited– her or ME!

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Nella Cordelia

By Jenni | March 5, 2010

The link I have included below is possibly the best blog post I have ever read.  I don’t know this blogger, never read her blog before, but happened to find a link to it from another blog.   I’m in awe of the beautiful writing and the way she told the story.   WOW.

Nella Cordelia’s Birth Story

If you are a mom, you simply MUST go take a few minutes and read this.   You won’t regret it.

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It drives me crazy…

By Jenni |

…when I see someone holding a sign on TV with a Bible verse written on it.  For some reason, I always have to hurry and look it up to make sure I don’t miss something important.

Yesterday morning I was watching a DVR’d episode of Extreme Makeover: Home Edition and noticed the contractor doing the work had a Bible verse written on his hard hat.  I tried to find a picture of it, but this was the best I could do:

I was in a hurry, trying to get ready for work and NOT be late.  I had no time to stop and look in the Bible to see what was so important that this contractor had to emblazon his hard hat with such a thing.

Of course, when I got to work, I promptly forgot about it.

Until today. 

I looked up the verse that was so boldly displayed on this man’s hat.  The stickers he placed on it spelled out MT 25:37-40

 37“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

 40“The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’ 

Matthew 25:37-40

Excellent.

Whew. Glad I got that out of the way, because it was driving me NUTS.

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Tammy

By Jenni | March 4, 2010

It all started with a Casting Crowns song. 

My daughter and I were sitting in the truck the other night, waiting for my youngest daughter to get done with gymnastics.  We were talking about wanting to see Casting Crowns in concert, because we both LOVE their music.   I plugged my iPod in and we started listening to the song “Does Anybody Hear Her?”  I told my daughter that this was one of my favorite songs because the lyrics really stir something up inside of me.

We sat and listened to it and it reminded me of this post I had read earlier in the day over at Heart Cries. I told my daughter the story that had unfolded in that blog post, and she was amazed at what happened in that church. We made some small talk about it, and the conversation ended.

Fast forward to last night.

I picked my kids up last night… youngest from AWANA, and oldest from church youth group. Oldest daughter was visibly upset. When I asked her what was wrong, she kept replying “nothing. I’m fine.”

When we got home and started walking into the house, I simply told her “You can always talk to me. If you need me for anything, just let me know.”

Her response? “If you keep talking to me, you’re just going to make me cry.”

Um, WHAT? Anyone that knows me in real life, will know that I don’t let things like this go. I’m the mom that is persistent, naggy and all up in your grill when I sense something is wrong.

I went down to her room and saw her sitting on her bed, working on homework. I could tell she was crying, and so I walked over to sit next to her. Again, I asked what was wrong, and she replied “I don’t know how to tell you.”

Again… um, WHAT?

After lots of back and forth dialogue of “What’s wrong?” and her replying “Nothing” over and over, I finally got it out of her.

She told me that at youth group, they played that same Casting Crowns song we had been listening to just a couple nights before. She said it made her think of the story I had told her. She said she immediately thought of a girl at school, whom we’ll call Tammy. Tammy is in the 8th grade like my daughter. Tammy comes from a very poor family, doesn’t have a lot of friends, and she sits alone at lunch every day.

My daughter said that her and her friends decided a couple weeks ago to try and become friends with Tammy. She showed me some conversations on Facebook they have had with Tammy, asking her to sit with them at lunch.

But Tammy has refused, saying she is uncomfortable in crowds. Instead she sits at a lunch table by herself, doing her homework. My daughter said they very rarely see Tammy even eating lunch. She usually just has school books with her.

My daughter cried as she told me that she feels that she needs to do something, especially after hearing that song, and after hearing the story over at Heart Cries.

But she doesn’t know what to do.

We sat and talked about it, and finally settled on something to try. She is going to go to school this morning, and talk to her group of friends. They are going to decide on two of them to go sit with Tammy at lunch today. We decided that maybe instead of pouncing on her as a group of 8, a couple of them sitting with her wouldn’t make her feel so overwhelmed.

I’m anxious to hear how things go today with Tammy. I had a hard time keeping from crying last night as I sat there and listened to my daughter. She has such a good heart, and I admire her for reaching out to people as she feels called to do.

Today, I sit here and realize how much I want to be like my daughter. Honestly, if I was in the same situation– would I have acted as she did? Would I have made an effort to include someone that looked left out? I know I wouldn’t have done it when I was 8th grade, but even now, WOULD I?

She amazes me.

Every.

Single.

Waking.

Moment.

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JewelryGate 2010

By Jenni | March 3, 2010

Almost two weeks ago, I wrote a pretty detailed account of my daughter’s  experience with four jewelry store chains while trying to purchase herself a purity ring.    I think after everything that has happened, it would be better to now refer to the whole ordeal as “JewelryGate 2010.”

After posting our story, I received several comments.  Some through my blog, and some of you emailed me directly.  Many people suggested that I contact each of the stores and let them know about my experience– the good, the bad, and the ugly.   

 So, on Monday, February 22nd, I did just that.  I went to each of the store’s corporate websites (Rogers, Greenbergs, Helzbergs, and Zales) and posted my contact information with a write-up of my review, exactly as it appeared on my blog.  I also included a link to my site, should they wish to see the post themselves.    

And then I waited.

That same day, I received automated responses from both Zales and Helzbergs, both indicating they had received my comment and “someone will be contacting you shortly.”

On Wednesday the 24th, I received another automated response from Zales, as follows:

 Dear Jenni,

We have received your concern, please provide the store location in which you had your experience as well as some detail on what occurred. Thereafter, we can forward your concern to the appropriate executive.

Should you have any further questions, or require additional assistance, please contact us at 1-800-311-5393, or email us at customerservice@zales.com and a Customer Service Representative will be happy to assist you.

Sincerely,

Zales Customer Service

That same Wednesday, I received my first REAL reply from a store. I received a call on my cell phone from Kevin, the store manager of the Helzberg’s store we visited. He had been contacted by his district manager, who had been contacted by their Corporate offices as my complaint made its way through the company. 

Kevin, also being the father of a teenager, was appalled at the treatment my daughter received in his store, and promised that it is NOT how they do business. He indicated that he believes every customer should be treated with respect, whether they have $1 in their pocket, or $10,000 and whether they are purchasing something or not. I explained to him that while I do not suggest people boycott their store (I hate to have a repeat of the recent local Legends restaurant saga), I will make sure I visit Rogers first should I ever be jewelry shopping again. Kevin also informed me he would be sharing my review at their next employee staff meeting, as a training tool for how to deliver great customer service. (Go Kevin!)

A few minutes later, I also received a call from Art, the store manager at Rogers, the only store in which we had a GREAT experience. He thanked me for my blog post, and told me that he very much appreciated our honest review of their store. He indicated he printed off the review and had it framed, and proudly displayed it in their store window. Art told me he was also contacted by Jody of Iowa Geek to inquire about their store participating in the 2010 Moms Nite Out coming soon. (See what good customer service gets you?).  

I had planned on writing this follow-up several days ago, but I wanted to give all four stores the chance to respond first. As of today, I have yet to receive any further response from Zales, and I have not received ANY response at all from Greenberg’s.

I did, however, get another phone call from Art at Rogers Jewelers on Friday, February 26th. He let me know that if I should happen to stop into their store, I would no longer see my review posted outside their store for all to see. Apparently, some of the other jewelry stores complained about it, and mall management asked them to take it down. If you’d like to see it, though, it’s now posted INSIDE the store, in a display case.  (I’m sure it has absolutely NOTHING to do with the fact that one of the jewelry stores in question — HELLO ZALES!– is located right next door.)

Sometimes I think people underestimate the incredible buying power teenagers have.   They do have disposable income, and they are more than willing to spend it.  While my daughter may have walked around with the intentions of spending $50 that day,  she also sat in the jewelry store and texted all of her friends, letting them know she bought the ring, and also WHERE SHE BOUGHT IT.   Word of mouth is a powerful tool, and it doesn’t matter how old you are.  If anything, its more powerful with the younger generation, as I am sure her friends would be more than willing to just go to the exact same place my daughter went to, simply based on her suggestion.

Bottom line, like cars, jewelry is not something that we go out and purchase every day.  And with the current state of the economy, every company is fighting even harder to earn your business and mine.  The best way for them to do it is by providing excellent customer service.  It might be the advertising or the sales that draw people in, but when it comes down to it, it’s all about how they treat you.  

Disclosure:  While I was not compensated for writing this, I was informed by both Rogers and Helzberg’s that their Corporate Offices would be sending me “something” in the mail.    This did not in any way influence my review, especially since I dont even know what they are sending me.  Smile

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