Book Review: “In On It: What Adoptive Parents Would Like You To Know”

In on It: What Adoptive Parents Would Like You to Know About Adoption: A Guide for Relatives and FriendsIn on It: What Adoptive Parents Would Like You to Know About Adoption: A Guide for Relatives and Friends by Elisabeth O’Toole

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I bought the ebook version of this, and if I would have known how short it was, I probably would not have purchased it. After taking out the title pages in the front and the extra “stuff” in the back, this book was just under 100 pages long. I read it during my lunch hour.

That being said, I still gave it four stars. This book is aimed towards the family and friends of adoptive parents. Because not only will the adoptive families get looks and questions when they adopt, but so will those around them. Most people don’t think about that. So Elisabeth O’Toole wrote this book for people like my parents, who might get questions from other family members or even strangers that might ask those intrusive questions that they are afraid to ask us.

“What race is that child anyways?”
“Why did they adopt?”
“How much did they pay for that child?”
“Why didn’t the birth parents want him/her?”

This book tells how to deal with the questions, the appropriate way to answer them, and the nice way to brush people off. It was interesting, well– if you can get your family and friends to actually read the book.

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Seriously… I’m Kidding – by Ellen DeGeneres

Seriously...I'm KiddingSeriously…I’m Kidding by Ellen DeGeneres

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I remember watching Ellen Degeneres on her old sitcom years ago (1994-1998). She was funny back then. Now she’s HILARIOUS. This book was a quick read, just a little under 160 pages. But Ellen delivered the laughs in her usual fashion. I watch her talk show every single day, and she takes up a regular spot on my DVR recordings. She’s down-to-earth, funny, and her book is a must-read.



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I don’t expect Redbox to hire rocket scientists, but jeez…

It must be a law somewhere that every company I deal with has to have a barrel of monkeys working in their Customer Service department. Because boy– have we had some doozies! As my husband always says, there’s people that have book smarts and there’s people that have street smarts.

Redbox? They really don’t seem to have either one.

Saturday night, we stopped and got two movies from our local Redbox machine. Surprisingly enough, our small town of 1,000 people doesn’t have any restaurants or a grocery store, but I’ll be darned– we got ourselves a REDBOX!

So, we got two movies. When we got home, my daughter and her boyfriend were going to watch one of them, and my husband and I were going to watch the other.

My daughter brings up the case to the movie they were going to watch and said there were two movies inside of it. One was the movie that we intended to rent, and the other was the children’s movie “Rango.” Apparently, the person that had rented that movie before us had put two movies back in the same case.

So we were stuck with 3 Redbox movies and two cases, and thats when Mark decided to call Redbox’s Customer Service department. He was on hold for a LONG time before he finally got to speak to a Customer Service Rep(like we probably could have watched our entire movie). And this is the part where I just have to scratch my head and wonder what in the heck Redbox is thinking.

Mark explained the situation, how it wasn’t OUR movie that we were trying to return, but a movie stuck inside the case of the one we rented.

The Redbox rep told my husband we would have to go back to the machine and request a replacement case. An empty case would pop out and we could return the movie. Sounded easy, right?

Until the Rep told us we would have to swipe OUR credit/debit card to PAY FOR THE REPLACEMENT CASE. Yes, thats right. They wanted US to pay to return the movie THAT WE DIDN’T EVEN RENT. Someone explain to me how this makes any sense at all.

My husband asked if they would just mail us a replacement case, and the Rep said “No, we don’t do that.”

My husband kept explaining that we were just trying to do the right thing and return the movie that wasn’t ours. But again, Redbox insists WE’D HAVE TO PAY THE FEE.

So for now, we have a Redbox DVD that doesn’t belong to us sitting on our kitchen counter.

At least it could have been a GOOD movie… But we might just be the proud new owners of Rango.

Movie night, anyone?

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Review: ‘Summer Island’ by Kristin Hannah

Summer IslandSummer Island by Kristin Hannah

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is the 10th Kristin Hannah book I have read this year. I think I have mentioned a few times before that she and Jodi Picoult are probably my two favorite authors. They both have a style of writing that I am drawn to, and I have never been disappointed in any of their books.

“Summer Island” was certainly no different.

Summer Island is about advice expert Nora Bridges, the two daughters she abandoned years ago (Ruby & Caroline), and some other wonderful characters (Eric the homesexual cancer patient and his brother, Dean).

I was completely sucked in from Page 1. The author has a way of making my feel very strongly about each of the characters. Nora becomes involved in a tabloid scandal, and she winds up being injured in a car accident — her fault, because she was so depressed she drove in a drunk stupor right into a tree. When the tabloid scandal gets seriously revved up, Nora decides to hide away for a while at her old lake house. Her estranged daughter Ruby gets talked into caring for her injured mother for a week.

I was surprised that this book make me so emotional, as I shed a lot of tears while reading — especially in the last half.

Obviously not wanting to reveal any spoilers, it was a book full of family, love, romance and sadness– I loved it and can’t wait to get started on my next Kristin Hannah book, Distant Shores.

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Review: “The Color of Heaven” by Julianne MacLean

The Color of HeavenThe Color of Heaven by Julianne MacLean
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

The Color of Heaven is a story about the life of columnist Sophie Duncan. Sophie is married to the man of her dreams, has a beautiful daughter Megan and is living what seems to be the perfect life. Suddenly, one day she notices some changes in her young daughter. Her daughter Megan is then diagnosed with myeloid leukemia. Then Sophie’s husband confesses to an affair and announces he is love with a woman from his office– who happens to be pregnant.

If these catastrophic blows weren’t bad enough for Sophie, she gets into a car accident on the way to see her family. Her car plunges into an ice-covered lake and what happens then is…

Well, you will have to read to find out. You won’t be disappointed.

At first, I wasn’t going to share all that happened to Sophie with her husband and daughter, but since this all happens in the first few chapters I figured it wasn’t really considered a ‘spoiler.’ These tragedies, while important in Sophie’s life, simply lay the groundwork for what this book is really about– Sophie resolving some issues in her life, finding out some secrets from her past and moving on to a fresh new life.

I had a hard time putting this book down, and I love reading stories that keep me so engaged. The chapters were short, the storyline was interesting, and I loved Sophie’s character. I felt what she was feeling, and cried when she cried.

This would be a perfect book for a book club to read, as there are several discussion points in this book that would make for interesting conversation.

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