Selling ourselves short.

I have always wanted to be “one of those bloggers”– you know, the ones that make a great income just from their blog. They have great advertisers, have tons of offers to review free product. What blogger doesn’t want THAT?

Oh to be a Dooce, or an Ali Martell, or a Barefoot Foodie, or heck — a Pioneer Woman. The ones that are offered writing deals, book deals, television shows, trips around the world, and the like.

I have stuck my toe into the advertising waters a few times over the years, doing sponsored posts, inserting ad-links into my blog, and even reviewing free products on occasion. Obviously, I am taking the wrong route– because my bank account? Doesn’t seem thrilled at the lack of blog income I’ve got coming in.

Recently, I was approached by a “writing service” asking me if I would be interested in adding a few ad-links to some of my blog posts. They would pay me $5 for each link I added, and it didn’t really sound like a bad deal.

Until they told me where I needed to add them.

I assumed they would be small ad-links at the bottom of my posts every once in a while, but oh NO. These people were thinking bigger.

They actually wanted me to add the ad-links into my post content on five posts, making it look like it was something I wrote. I read the email they sent me, with the list of links and wording they wanted me to add to my posts, and I felt violated.  Was I willing to compromise my crappy writing for a few measly dollars in my pocket?  

Five dollars for a link wasn’t worth selling my soul for. I’ve seen other bloggers doing it, and I keep thinking that maybe it’s ruining things for the rest of us. It makes us “mommybloggers” seem cheap and easy… not a good reputation to have.

Product reviews are a different matter, I guess. I don’t mind a company sending me free items for me to try out and review, as long as they don’t expect me to write something good just because they sent me something for free.

What’s your take on blog advertising? Do you accept ad-links into your site? Do you sell ads in your sidebars? Do you review products?

For me, I think I’ll just keep my zero income and the five readers I have and sit tight.

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August Blog Challenge – Day 7

If you would like to participate in the August Blog Challenge, go visit Belinda for the daily prompts.

Day 7: What do you secretly hope each of your children will grow up to be?

What I want most for my children is that they follow their dreams. I want them to be happy, healthy– ready and able to take on the world.

My oldest has dreams of becoming a teacher, and plans to also pursue some sort of coaching at the high school level. I cannot think of a more perfect job for her to have. There is nothing in this world more suited to her personality and work ethic than becoming a teacher and coach. The love she has for helping others and her unwavering sense of decency and doing what is right… makes me admire her tremendously.

My youngest? She’s got a totally different personality than my oldest. With her, when asked “What do you want to be when you grow up?” the answer could change every day. She is a busy child, with a wild and active imagination. Her dreams range from becoming a professional soccer player to being a veterinarian. Somedays she wants to operate her own salon and spa, and other days she might want to be an actress. I just know that no matter what– she’s going to do whatever she wants to do. I know she can do it.

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August Blog Challenge – Day 5

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Day 5: What way has God spoken directly to you?

I can say, without a doubt, that we were meant to adopt. When Mark & I met, we both agreed that we were not going to have any more children. Then along came Courtney, who has changed our lives forever. I used to say that she was the piece that completed our family puzzle, but I know there is always room for more in our family. Always more love to share with another child.

So for almost 6 years, we’ve thought about adopting. Different situations, converastions, everything– have crossed our path these past six years, pointing us in the direction of adoption. Some call them signs — I even called them signs– but in the end, God was speaking to us. He was telling us what the next step is in our lives.

It’s been over 4 years since I first even started mentioning on my blog the subject of adoption or having another child , and it’s amazing how God has helped us prepare our lives for this. We have steady jobs, we have our finances in order, we are secure in our marriage… it’s TIME.

Our path to today:

2/8/07 – Where the path leads… Part 1

2/15/07 Where the path leads… Part 2

2/19/07 It’s a thought, a nudge, a sign…

1/8/10 What do you when you’re done having kids…

1/11/10 What are the chances?

1/21/10 The day we went to jail

2/2/10 The Meeting

2/3/10 Moms Like me are not capable…

4/12/11 Full Circle

4/21/11 Clearing The Air

4/25/11 What’s Wrong with being colorblind?

7/7/11 How can you grieve the loss of someone you don’t even know?

7/9/11 Wait, Wait, and um… Wait

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August Blog Challenge – Day 3

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Day 3: Worst chores around the house?

Can anything be worse than cleaning the bathrooms? The bathrooms in my house are the one reason I wish for a cleaning lady again. I loved coming home to sparkling clean toilets and a bathroom counter and sink free of hair product residue, toothpaste and bits of hair from my husband shaving.

I can handle about any chore in the house with minimal complaining, but bathrooms are my enemy. The bathrooms in my house are always LAST on my list of to-do’s; simply because I hate scrubbing toilets and tackling the ring in the bathtub.

And hair in the shower drain? Pretty much makes my gag reflex go into hyper-mode.

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August Blog Challenge – Day 2

If you would like to participate in the August Blog Challenge, go visit Belinda for the daily prompts.

Day 2: If you had 15 minutes of uninterrupted time, what would you do, when would you do it, and where?

A picture speaks a thousand words.

I’d certainly spend 15 minutes lovin’ up on my Nook. Since I am currently working on a challenge this year to read 75 books in 2011, I spend most of my free time reading.

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